Sunday 17 February 2019

Human touch in 21st Century Teaching

The Next Revolution is Human
Richard Gerver, 2018
“As we come to terms with the digital revolution and become more comfortable with our role in it, I sense that we are coming to realize that technology is as incredible as it is inevitable, but that the answer to continued progress, within education and beyond, lies in people.
Google uses technology to empower humanity and make it better, not to usurp it. Indeed, when they researched their own success through Project Oxygen, they discovered eight key characteristics of their outstanding leaders, ranked in the following order of importance:
1. They're good coaches.
2. They empower their team and don't micro-manage.
3. They express interest in their team members' success and personal well-being.
4. They are productive and results-oriented.
5. They're good communicators and they listen to the team.
6. They help employees with career development.
7. They have a clear vision and strategy for the team.
8. They have key technical skills that help them advise the team.
For me, it has always been interesting that even at the heart of a high-tech environment like Google, technical skills rank 8th―the top seven are all about human behaviors. It also strikes me that if we were to do the same thing with teachers, no matter what they teach, the list should look pretty much the same.”


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In response to the above and in reflection to my teaching, I find that the following are some possible ways to inculcate human touch in teaching:
1. Provide opportunities for practice of new skills. Guide and give feedback during the learning process so that students improve their output. All students value feedback.
2. Give students the opportunity to solve problems using their own creativity instead of spelling it out for them .They are more than capable. Let them use google on their phones to look things up.
3. Be lenient and be willing to listen to students’ concerns about their personal problems or problems in completing assignments. This encourages mature and open communication.
4. Share learning outcomes at the beginning of the semester, as well as at the beginning of every class so that students have concrete goals to achieve at every session.
5. Give students the opportunity to communicate in class with their group members. Have class discussions to encourage respect for other people’s perspectives and points of view and to engage in critical thinking.
6. Give students opportunities to lead in a team by giving a role or responsibility to every member based on individual strengths, ie: leader (ideas), manager (people), editor (language), secretary (organizing), personal relations/media officer (communication), research/data manager (knowledge).
7. Share easy strategies that help students achieve goals and learning outcomes for the course but let them choose which strategies to use.
8. Introduce online tools like google docs, padlet and also recent technology tools to improve online collaboration and technical skills.
As an educator, I believe that human touch and human talent are the most essential components of 21st century teaching - not technology per se

Tuesday 26 June 2018

What is Barakah?

Was there a time in your life when you experienced difficult days and had to put others' needs before your own? The burden of responsibilities was so overwhelming that there was hardly any time for yourself.

You then decided that it's okay, I'll carry out my responsibilities first and sacrifice my own needs? You struggled so hard to serve those who needed you and in the remaining, limited time that you had, you calmly worked efficiently and became extraordinarily productive. Hey, you even surprised yourself.

As a result, you got a strike of 'luck' and everything fell into place. The limited resource (time) that you had was used for the benefit of self and others and blessings after blessings kept coming in continuously beyond your expectations. This is referred to as BARAKAH.

A Well-known scholar of Islam explains BARAKAH as follows:
والبركة: هي ثبوت الخير الإلهي في الشيء؛ فإنها إذا حلت في قليل كثرته، وإذا حلت في كثير نفع، ومن أعظم ثمار البركة في الأمور كلها إستعمالها في طاعة الله عز وجل.
“Barakah is the attachment of Divine goodness to a thing, so if it occurs in something little, it increases it. And if it occurs in something much it benefits. And the greatest fruits of Barakah in all things is to use that barakah in the obedience of Allah (Subahanahu Wa Ta’ala)”

As a Muslim, I believe that when we make time for Allah, Allah will set our affairs straight, our limited time productive, our finances sufficient, our bodies healthy and fit, and our lives full of barakah.InshaAlllah.

In other words, minimal resources with maximum results.

How did you attain barakah in your business, marriage, career, family, time, money, or resources?



photo credit: islamicquotes.com

Tuesday 9 January 2018

Singapore with kids: 4 days 3 nights itinerary

I'm sharing our itinerary in Singapore in case you're thinking of planning a trip with baby & young kids




Day 1 :
Morning
🌸Artscience Museum (Future World is super fun for young kids & old kids) 
🌸Marina Bay Sands (next to Artscience museum)
Evening
🌸Haji Lane (hipster Muslim cafes suitable for evening walk)
🌸Arab Street
🌸Sultan Mosque (biggest mosque in Singapore)
🌸Bugis Street (suvenir shopping)
Day 2:
🌸Universal Studios Singapore
🌸Must see shows for preschoolers:
- Dance of the magic Beans
- Donkey Live
- Shrek 4D
🌸Must ride for preschoolers (above 92cm):
- A Crate Adventure (Madagascar zone)
- Enchanted Airways (Far Far Away zone)
- Sesame Street Spaghetti Chase (Hollywood zone)
Day 3:
Morning
🌸Bencoolen Mosque
🌸Visited PakTeh Singapore at Clementee near National University of Singapore
🌸Merlion Park
🌸River Cruise (not worth the money, dull ride, jetty at Merlion Park)
Evening
🌸Supertree Groves Garden Rhapsody at Marina Gardens by the Bay
Day 4
Morning
🌸National Museum (next to Fort Canning)
🌸Fort Canning (lovely park, nice for a morning stroll)
🌸⚡️Malay Heritage Centre (next to Masjid Sultan, closes at 6pm)
Hotel: Bencoolen Hotel
Walking distance to halal eateries
🌸Pu3 Restaurant (Indonesian cuisine)
🌸Al-Jilani Restaurant (mamak / best Briyani we've ever tasted)
🌸Parklane has halal McDonalds, KFC & Kebab
Walking distance to Bugis Junction (shopping mall)
Walking distance to Bras Basah MRT
& Bugis MRT
Taxi stand & bus stand right in front of hotel
To airport
Cheap bus to airport (no 46) only SGD5 per person one way, kids free. Taxi to airport around SGD17-20 depending on the type of taxi you board.
With kids, we chose taxi as our mode of transport. Covered more places this way. We did try MRT just for the sake of trying 😁😄It was crowded.


Wednesday 29 March 2017

Two months into my career break and this is what I learned about being a stay (and work) at home mom

Career break
After having baby number 2, I didn't feel like going back to work. Maybe it was the baby blues where your hormones go all wacko on you. Or maybe it was just in the wide-eyed doting and admiring of a brand new baby boy. Whatever it was, I knew I wasn't ready to go back to work teaching at university. 

SAHM, WAHM, or Full-time job?
If you’ve ever considered trying to choose between the mom-job options available: I’m talking about the stay-at-home-mom; work-at-home-mom; or full time working mom;, here’s my take on experiencing all three roles with two young children. I’m sharing my personal thoughts on the currencies that we struggle with the most - money and time.

No salary?
Taking a break from my career in teaching meant no salary. Although I knew I couldn't spend as much as I do on a full salary, (and part of the reason why I do like my job is because of the pay, and how I’m able to spend it on little luxuries that make my family happy), I still wanted a shot at having time off of work to spend time with my kids at home.

I’m the kind of mom who’s attached to her kids 24/7 (more than she’s willing to admit.) So in addition to my 3 months maternity leave, I decided to take an extra 6 months off from work. I had enough savings to not have to worry about money so I thought I’d figure out if this whole stay-at-home mom job was something I could do for the rest of my life. I really needed to see if I was capable of becoming a full time child-minder. Also, I do get bored easily, so I knew I was going to be working from home too.

Things I learned
Along the way, these are things I learned about money and time while being a stay (and work) at home mom:

1. MONEY
While you may have the time to rest whenever you want to, it’s a tougher world out here when you don't get a paycheck at the end of every month. 

However, if you’re willing, it’s absolutely possible to live with half of your usual salary (even with a house and car mortgage to pay).You heard me right. Half of your salary.

Luxuries
This, at first, seemed impossible to me. I thought I’d run out of my savings by the third month but things look pretty good at the moment. All it takes is a little budgeting and high discipline. When I recorded my spending habits, I realized how much money I was spending on unnecessary things like clothing, toys, entertainment and dining out. What used to be the norm of dining out with my family is now considered an occasional treat. I now understand what it’s like to walk in the shoes of those in the lower income group. It's a humbling experience.

Budget
I learned to take on the 'imagine I'm a student' mindset and become a cheapo. I reflected on a time when I was a student and I survived with my RM265 study allowance which was sufficient for my monthly expenses at one point in my life. With this mindset, I cut my family's spending in half. (I'll share about 'living on a basic budget by choice so that you can save money for international travel’ in another post)

Free stuff
I learned to enjoy the simpler things in life. It's true that the best things in life are free. For me, this takes the form of picnics, projects, parks, playgrounds, and pleasurable family gatherings. For the expensive things that I wanted my children to experience, I saved up, and found ways to get the best discounts (which you absolutely can with a little ol’ google search).

The verdict?
If enjoying the simpler things in life isn’t for you, then I can’t recommend that you’ll be happy if you decide to quit your job. I’m not going to lie, there were times when I felt like I wanted to go back to work so that I could get a paycheck at the end of the month. As a woman, the freedom of being able to spend your money on whatever you want, is actually very liberating. As a muslim wife, I do get my monthly ‘nafkah’ (allowance) from my other half, but it’s not the same.

2. TIME
It goes without saying that you have more freedom and free time when you stay at home. It’s so relaxing to be able to sleep in when you’re really tired which you can’t do when you have a job to wake up to. That being said, I am almost never as exhausted as I did when I was teaching. The adequate rest made my body feel healthier, more refreshed and my skin better. Not having to face traffic during rush hour meant no stress early in the morning. Instead, I wake up to happy giggly little faces who are excited to see me. Also, as a Muslim, staying at home gives me more time for ibadah (meditation). So I can say I am much calmer in a sense.

Job woes
There were times when I was absolutely thankful to be at home and didn’t miss my job at all. I’m not an active person by nature so being constantly on the move was stressful for me. I didn’t miss my work because I lived in my car most of the time during the day. I think most of us working moms live in our cars more than in our homes. My classes were located at different faculties all over the campus in Bangi and KL. Fighting for a parking spot at every single faculty I taught at was not fun. There were times that I had to teach from 4-6pm which was not at my optimal time and it was draining my energy. On top of that, the syllabus for some of the courses that I taught was just crazy to be able to achieve in 14 weeks. Being an overachiever, I had to make sure that I covered the syllabus and that students actually take away something from the courses I teach. Sometimes, that led to burn-out.

Bright side
When you experience burn-out, you lose all sense of motivation. I am usually highly motivated, and I thrive on reading, learning and implementing new ideas. But when you come back from work feeling exhausted you just forget to do the things you love. Having more time on my hands, I reflected on the things I loved about my job. This includes connecting with students, car-pooling with my colleagues to KL while sharing ideas on pedagogy and just having a good time really, being blessed with understanding and kind colleagues, and having supportive mentors/leaders/bosses.


The verdict?
Was I happier? Not necessarily. Too much time on my hands often gave me time to ponder over trivial things. Sometimes I would be excessively worried over small issues and dwell on insignificant problems. I now realize that all roots of my anxiety come when I have too much time on my hands. Having said that, it’s much better to be super busy and  become exhausted at the end of the day having achieved things in your life than it is to be free, laid back and feel like you haven’t gotten yourself anywhere and haven't done anything.

That’s why I decided to transition from a SAHM to a WAHM. In my next post, I’ll share with you how impossible it can be to work from home and how fulfilling it could be if you learn to do it right.

Do you like your current role now? What would you change if you could do anything now?

Sunday 26 March 2017

Morning habits of a Muslim Mom

I wrote this post three years ago on my old blog and I find that its still relevant up until today.
I've recently learned to wake up early. By early, I mean at 5am.
It’s actually a really good idea to wake up way before anyone else in the house does. Why? Here are some benefits that I experienced
1. Spend 30-45 mins for mindful Fajr prayers.
Meditation is widely known to give a calm effect on your body, mind and soul.
I think that as a Muslim, taking 30 minutes first thing in the morning to calm my nerves before facing the chaotic hustle bustle of life is the best daily therapy ever. With fajar prayer, and by reading 3 pages from the Quran, and some Zikr, magic happens. Praise Allah for all His blessings, and remember that we are nothing without what He has bestowed on us.
I promise you, if you do this, you will feel a sense of calmness that not even an earthquake could get you into a panicky flight mode.
2.  Set Good Intentions
Do I intend to do my best and give it my all today? Yes. I intend to eat healthy, I intend to be productive at work, I intend to be the reason someone smiles today, I intend to be kind and considerate to others, I intend to prepare wholesome meals for my family and I intend to make small changes to make me a better person, to make the world a better place to live in.
When you start your day with good intentions, with a good frame of mind – you’re ready to take on any challenge that comes your way.
3. Listen to Motivational Audio while Cooking Breakfast 
It goes without saying that breakfast is the most important meal of the day. It gives you not only physical strength, but also the energy to take on mental challenges.
While preparing breakfast, invest some time in self-development. Listen to podcasts or even youtube videos to learn more skills or knowledge on any area you want to be good at.
I usually listen to TED talks and Islamic podcasts.
I keep in mind that I am the average of the 5 people I spend my time with. I want these scholars and great thinkers to be part of my circle, so that’s when I spend time with them.
4. Introspective Time with Coffee
I take my time to savour my breakfast and I enjoy my morning coffee. I usually sit in front of my laptop and read. When I read, I learn something new. When I learn something new, it makes me happy. When I learn something new I write about it in my journal. It's funny, but I find that when I’m happy I eat less. 
There’s science behind this, so figure out what ‘fills you up’ and you’ll eat less. Learning and writing 'fills me up'. Find what 'fills you up'.
5. Have breakfast with family
This is the time of the day that we sit as a family and talk for 30 mins. Each child gets some attention from mom and dad and we entertain simple food and drink requests. We also make sure everyone starts the day with a healthy meal that includes fruits. A full tummy is the start of a happy day. 
6. Leave the house at the same time every day
I usually have my outfits ready during the weekends. My outfits are usually lined up for the whole week. That way I don’t waste time thinking about what to wear! We all know that a girl has a wardrobe full of clothes and nothing to wear. Just go with what you feel beautiful in. Chuck out the rest to charity.
7. Use commuting time to work wisely
Again, listen to positive talks, positive music (like Nasyeed or Selawat) or anything that can lift your spirit up. Focus on being positive and start the day with a smile.
Rise earlier to be happier!

Saturday 25 March 2017

Surviving Disney on Ice Malaysia 2017: My top 7 tips for moms with young kids

We went to Disney on Ice at Stadium Malawati Shah Alam on 25th March 2017 and we had a blast!

I went with both my children (a 5 yr old and a 5 months old) and it worked out fine.

Here are 7 tips for mommies with young children in surviving Disney on Ice in Malaysia

#1 Book the earliest show of the day
There are three shows in one day. The earliest is at 11 am, the middle show is at 3 pm and the evening show is at 7pm. I booked the earliest show because firstly, my young children are *happier* in the morning and *crankier* in late afternoon. Usually, they're already tired by 2pm. Happy kids, happy mom right? Get them out of the house early!



Secondly, it’s easier to find a parking spot. If you go to the middle show, cars from the first show will be leaving the event place and it would take a longer time to find parking compared to a relatively shorter time if you go to the earliest show. If you have bought tickets to the middle show, it's okay, just leave the house earlier.


#2 Book seats in the mid-ranged price
I bought the category 3 seats that cost me RM148 per ticket. The cheapest ticket price is the category 4 seats that cost RM98. If I were to go again, I'd spend a little more and pay for the category 3 seats that cost RM188 per ticket because the view would be perfect! As you can see, we sat too further up.






#3 Find seating in the middle section
The Disney on Ice characters interact the most with audience in the B18 section in the seat map image below. I sat in the C18 section, which is above B18.


This was our view.



If you want your children to be able to take pictures with the Disney characters, then you ought to buy the rinkside and category 1 tickets. My daughter would have been super happy if she could take photos with her favourite characters, but alas the tickets cost too much for me!

 If your aim is to fully experience Disney on Ice then I highly recommend that you buy the Category 3 tickets, the best seats are in B18.

We watched Snow White, Aladdin, The Little Mermaid, Finding Dory, The Lion King, Toy Story, and of course the highlight of the show - Frozen. There's a short clip of Elsa on ice in this post below.


#4 Bring another adult to help with the kids' toilet breaks
I went with my husband and the queue at the men's toilet is a way shorter than the queue at the women's toilet. That can save precious time for all the family members to enjoy the show.



#5 Dress your girls up (it's warm in the stadium)
Many other little girls will be dressing up as their favourite character so your girls might want to wear their princess dress and accessorize with a tiara and a wand! Girls just want to have fun. Here's Elsa swirling on ice.



#6 Bring an umbrella, leave the stroller
It takes about 10 minutes to walk from the parking lot to the event hall at the stadium Malawati Shah Alam so bring an umbrella; rain or shine. Stadium Malawati isn't stroller friendly as you have to climb a few staircases so consider baby-wearing if you're bringing an infant or a toddler.



#7 Bring extra cash
There's plenty of 'gizmos, gadgets, galore' like the words of Ariel the mermaid. Since I've been to Disneyland Paris, the merchandise is similar to those sold there. Although, they seem expensive at RM50 per item, the ones I bought in Paris in 2008 are still in good condition. You pay for the same quality and you dont have to go to Paris. In actual fact, the merchandise in Disneyland Paris would end up costing RM60-RM70 per item when converted from Euro to MYR. Apart from merchandise, there are also plenty of food and drinks stalls ranging from Starbucks to Krispy Kreme doughnuts to Kenny Rogers.






Above all, remember to have fun!







Even if Allah gives you everything you ask for, it will never be enough.


Do you still remember the days you prayed for the things you have now?
You have everything you asked for and more yet you're still dissatisfied with your life. You want more.. and more.
Take a moment and think about it. The less you want, the richer you are.The more you need in order to be happy, the more miserable you will be.
Enjoy the little things in life because one day you'll look back and realize they were the big things.
For one minute, walk outside.
Stand there in silence.
Look up at the sky, and contemplate how amazing life is.